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Two Ways Honoring Yourself Can Radically Change Your Life

SK Camille
12 min readJun 13, 2019

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The Epidemic of Lack of Self-Worth

It’s hard to feel truly good about yourself — respect yourself — in American culture. This society purposely undermines people’s sense of worth: People spend more when they feel essentially inadequate, meaningless, and unimportant. They become willing to spend money, time, and effort on purchases and activities that make them feel better about themselves and their lives.

It’s status symbols to prop up a person’s ego, or makeup and clothes that help them feel attractive and worthy of attention when they don’t feel that way without them. It’s substances like alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, sugar, and chocolate that people use, partly, to dull or distract from the terrible feelings of meaninglessness and of not deserving respect, love, or a good life.

As much as capitalism extols individual achievement and ingenuity, it also thrives on a mass of people who feel awful about themselves.

And when people don’t feel that their own thoughts, beliefs, and values are important, they also become easily led. That might take the form of a person who remains in a passive, compliant role in a relationship, or a citizen who trusts media reports or leaders’ statements without duly vetting them.

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SK Camille

I cover general-interest professional topics in clear, actionable briefs. I also write about change, growth, and faith with warmth and optimism.